Brain – Articles that feature our minds and mindset

These articles are for you if:

  • You're exhausted in ways that sleep doesn't fix
  • You're questioning whether drinking is serving you anymore
  • You suspect you're operating on outdated coping mechanisms that aren't working for this phase of life
  • You're trying to figure out if what you're experiencing is "normal midlife stuff" or something that needs attention
  • You're tired of advice about self-care and want to hear how real people actually navigate their mental health

Common questions these articles explore:

  • How do I know if I'm burned out or if this is just what adult life feels like now?
  • What does sobriety look like when you're not "rock bottom" but you know something needs to change?
  • How do other people manage anxiety, depression, or overwhelm without having it all figured out?
  • What tools or practices actually help versus what just sounds good on Instagram?
  • How do I rebuild my relationship with my brain and body in midlife?

What you can expect to learn:These aren't clinical explanations or expert prescriptions. You'll hear from people who've lived through burnout, reconsidered their relationship with alcohol, discovered they had ADHD at 40, or found unexpected tools that helped them function better. You'll get permission to experiment, to not have it all figured out, and to recognize that managing your mental health is an ongoing practice, not a problem to solve once and for all.

Enjoy. 


Every generation of women inherits a version of the same promise: get it right, and happiness follows automatically. Get married, have the kids, stay home, and the rest takes care of itself. It is a tidy equation, and for a lot of women, it is also a trap, because nobody

Stay at Home Mom Guilt and Rediscovering Yourself

Grief does not wait for you to be ready. It shows up in the middle of your regular Tuesday and rearranges the furniture in your mind, and most of us are never handed a manual for what to do next. Some people throw themselves into work. Some people disappear into

Grief and Golf as a Path to Healing

It’s possible for a person to spend decades living at half capacity, and they might not even know it. They show up to work, to relationships, to dinner. And they perform. Not in the theatrical sense, but in the quiet, exhausting way of someone who has quietly decided that the

Coming Out Later in Life Navigating Divorce and Identity

St. Patrick’s Day, Santa Monica. A new mom is pushing a stroller through a crowded promenade, watching strangers laugh and drink and exist with zero effort. She is six months postpartum, sleep-deprived to the point of cognitive fog, physically broken from a delivery that fractured her tailbone, and completely invisible

New Moms Who Are Struggling Silently Need to Know That They Are Not Alone

Crissy Fishbane hit her breaking point in a carport, sitting in her car crying before she could bring herself to walk through her own front door. She had done everything right: earned her master’s degree, landed her dream job teaching high school psychology, planned to put in her 30 years.

Walking the Camino de Santiago for Deep Self-Discovery

Some plateaus are too stubborn to be moved by anything less than a one-way ticket. When Brenda Florida, a 65-year-old life coach from Huntington Beach, California, found herself stuck in a rut she couldn’t shake, she did what most people only fantasize about: she put her belongings in storage, flew

Moving to Mexico for Six Months as a Pattern Interruption

Imagine a moment in the Uffizi Gallery in Florence where a professional artist, sketchbook open and pen moving, looked down at her drawing of the statue of Apollo and noticed something was missing. She had left a blank space exactly where the genitals should have been. This was not on

Drawing Nude Art as a Woman Challenging Shame

It’s possible that many people don’t recognize the moment they stop taking care of themselves. Especially when it doesn’t arrive as a dramatic breakdown. Sometimes it comes in handfuls, the way Karen Rudolph’s hair came out in the shower during the worst stretch of her life. A former nurse turned

Chronic Stress Taught Her That No Is a Complete Sentence

Life after major upheaval rarely arrives as a single, dramatic event. More often, it comes in a cluster, a cascade of things falling apart at once, that leaves you standing in the wreckage of a life that used to make sense. For Becky Mollenkamp, that cluster arrived in 2010, when

Rebuilding A ​​Life After Major Upheaval Can Crack You Open in Ways You Never Expected

Most people who struggle with binge eating do not look like they are struggling. From the outside, they are the capable ones, the driven ones, the people who seem to have it all figured out. They are running meetings, maintaining relationships, checking every box a successful life is supposed to

Binge Eating and Living with Hidden Shame